a girl path toward marriage
2008-07-30
smugly marriedhaa... dah 7 bulan tak blogging..
itchy itchy, hand...
after 9 month being a hermit, not blogging, just being a silent reader,
hehhee..
take a peek at my new blog, yes its terribly new, i havent have the time to deco it yet.. :)
see you there...
of twilight and dreams ::
6:59 PM ::
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2007-12-31
after all has been said and done
Well.. I guess that's it right. It has been a long journey. The blog is written as diary for my path on getting married, the good experience, the bad one or funny experiences, my trip to bliss (I am blissfully happy now) to my happily ever after...Readers that are getting married themselves, Good luck! and enjoy your journey, your very own trip-to-bliss. Singletons, do enjoy being single (and not having to worried about mak andam/ fotog/ duit-duit-duit!!) and 'smug-married' (*ahemm.... kita enjoy!) hahahhaa.....
I know I said no more pics earlier, but I just have to post this pic, the bouqet was a replica of my pic on your right hand side. I had it for my kenduri bertandang. It is a bouquet of pink roses that started off the whole pink affair of my blog.
Haa.... Alhamdulillah, syukur kepadanya dah kahwin dah ~bliss + Soulmate. I hope my marriage will forever be bless by Him, hopefully we will stay together sampai bila-bila and one day have children and granchildren... (hihihih) InsyaAllah, with all your prayers and well wishes.
I will leave this blog just as the way it is. And remove it one fine day.... But frett not, I will continure reading your blogs too.
Freuqent flyers, I just want to say that your writing inspire me to blog as well. When I read really good things from other blogs, I am compelled to write and share my story too. You gals are my muse 'xoxo'. .......Iya.. betul... :) :)
Happy new year 2008 everyone, semoga segala azam dan cita2 untuk tahun baru nanti tercapai dan sentiasa diberkatiNya.
Thank you.
of twilight and dreams ::
9:44 AM ::
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2007-12-19
aftermath I am a bit late chatting up about my wedding, well better late than never la kan... Hehhee... dahjadi missus ni most of my free time will be with Soulmate, or housework.
Hmm.... housework and chores, aiyahhh.. for someone who is too lazy to wash her own cloth, I have to wash 2 sets nowadays, oatmeal drinks for breakfast has change to sandwiches, toast + hash brown or nasi goreng when I have extra time.
~
Lets talk about my wedding. Hehehhee...
You know what, I can list 101 things that didn't went as I planned on my wedding day.
But guess what? even my neurotic self can be forgiving sometimes, hahhaa... I found that, after everything has been said and done, the important part is we are together, husband and wife. Trifle things that went wrong will not pull me down, and turn me into a sour bride. Rugi la kan.. bayar fotographer ribu-raban kalo muka masam macam cuka... hahhahaa...
Alhamdulillah again, me and soulmate are married,(yeay!) thank you so much to our parents + family for all their help and support. I am glad that most has turn up the way we plan it, no major issues and family conflict along the way.
More photos, I am sorry but I will not be able to post more photos, for privacy issues, plus I'm just so in love with my anonymity.
~
One month ++ married, **pheww.. sooo... much things happen and the same time. Getting married, moving to a new place, getting a new job ... etc.. Tak sempat pon nak pergi honeymoon, due to new work commitment and budget issues. **sigh.. perhaps next year, after bonuses la yer.. Soulmate. :) :)
And yeahh.. dah ada org tanya dah dekat saya. "ada apa-apa ker ?? hahaa... " takde, takdeapa2.. hahaha.. tah apa benda tah haper-haper jer... HAahahaHAhhaHAHah.... we are still enjoying this honeymoon time. LOL....
~
I am going to celebrate my first raya with Soulmate, **excited! Planning to go for sembahyangraya together with him this Thursday, and perhaps just chilling around petang tu nanti.
So to all, " Selamat Hari Raya Aidiladha ", hope all of you have a blessed one. InsyaAllah. Take care... :) :)
Hmm.... housework and chores, aiyahhh.. for someone who is too lazy to wash her own cloth, I have to wash 2 sets nowadays, oatmeal drinks for breakfast has change to sandwiches, toast + hash brown or nasi goreng when I have extra time.
~
Lets talk about my wedding. Hehehhee...
You know what, I can list 101 things that didn't went as I planned on my wedding day.
But guess what? even my neurotic self can be forgiving sometimes, hahhaa... I found that, after everything has been said and done, the important part is we are together, husband and wife. Trifle things that went wrong will not pull me down, and turn me into a sour bride. Rugi la kan.. bayar fotographer ribu-raban kalo muka masam macam cuka... hahhahaa...
Alhamdulillah again, me and soulmate are married,(yeay!) thank you so much to our parents + family for all their help and support. I am glad that most has turn up the way we plan it, no major issues and family conflict along the way.
More photos, I am sorry but I will not be able to post more photos, for privacy issues, plus I'm just so in love with my anonymity.
~
One month ++ married, **pheww.. sooo... much things happen and the same time. Getting married, moving to a new place, getting a new job ... etc.. Tak sempat pon nak pergi honeymoon, due to new work commitment and budget issues. **sigh.. perhaps next year, after bonuses la yer.. Soulmate. :) :)
And yeahh.. dah ada org tanya dah dekat saya. "ada apa-apa ker ?? hahaa... " takde, takdeapa2.. hahaha.. tah apa benda tah haper-haper jer... HAahahaHAhhaHAHah.... we are still enjoying this honeymoon time. LOL....
~
I am going to celebrate my first raya with Soulmate, **excited! Planning to go for sembahyangraya together with him this Thursday, and perhaps just chilling around petang tu nanti.
So to all, " Selamat Hari Raya Aidiladha ", hope all of you have a blessed one. InsyaAllah. Take care... :) :)
of twilight and dreams ::
1:32 PM ::
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2007-12-05
memories
of twilight and dreams ::
5:14 PM ::
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2007-11-24
blissfully happyBaby you're all that I want.
When you're lying here in my arms
I'm finding it hard to believe
We're in heaven.
And love is all that I need
And I found it there in your heart.
It isn't too hard to see
We're in heaven.
DJ Sammy - Heaven
of twilight and dreams ::
1:06 PM ::
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2007-11-09
mrs. blisshai all,
wahh.. hari ni baru dapat pegang pc, pheww....
alhamdulillah everything has went well...
dah jadi isteri orang dah.. ishh...
will update some more soon.
&
thank you so... much for the warm wishes...
& again
thank you :)
of twilight and dreams ::
6:07 PM ::
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2007-10-30
missing youI am missing Soulmate.
I have not seen him for 1 day, and I miss him already. I sound like a lovesick fool but I don't care, I miss him...
Ishh.... I think he has been raiding IKEA in my absence, he keeps buying more stuff, more so than me. He is in his "decorating" mood.
*sighh..
Soulmate, bila boleh jumpa ni...
of twilight and dreams ::
5:09 PM ::
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Last week the fitting turns out like a circus. At first, I was a bit upset, because Soulmate was late *sigh*.. So I went to the bridal by myself, and ask Soulmate to meet me there. When I got there, I tried on the blue songket and darn!!.... I can't fit into it...huhuh.. sedih sangat... the bridal-owner, she forgot to take my measurement, and just make the baju as a standard size M.
To quote Shakira, "my hips don't lie" laa..... So it need to be taken out at the hips and waist area, or tetamu kenduri nanti will get a free show bila all the buttons pop-out! bila I to sit down.
Huhhh... Luckily Soulmate outfit was OK and no re-fitting is required for him.
When I was trying on the outfit ada ler pulak 2 family datang nak test baju and discuss with the akak, so everybody try to talk to the Akak at the same time, dah jadi cam pasar, pulak. And one of them give some rude comment pasal baju saya tak muat. I know laa... I am not an S size, but sibuk jer nak comment about my wasitline. Chaitt!!! Dah la tu, sibuk jer dok comment about the other bride, who was a bit on the skinny side, on how her kebaya hung too loosely on her petit frame etc... etc... biar la kan...
Sibuk jer kan ??
Tapi takpa, dah pergi re-fit balik baju tu, and alhamdulillah muat. Hmm... kenapa ler boleh terlupa langsung nak ukur baju tu sebelum akak tu pergi tempah yer ??? Ishhh..Dah nak kahwen ni, I am getting forgetful la.... ishh...
To quote Shakira, "my hips don't lie" laa..... So it need to be taken out at the hips and waist area, or tetamu kenduri nanti will get a free show bila all the buttons pop-out! bila I to sit down.
Huhhh... Luckily Soulmate outfit was OK and no re-fitting is required for him.
When I was trying on the outfit ada ler pulak 2 family datang nak test baju and discuss with the akak, so everybody try to talk to the Akak at the same time, dah jadi cam pasar, pulak. And one of them give some rude comment pasal baju saya tak muat. I know laa... I am not an S size, but sibuk jer nak comment about my wasitline. Chaitt!!! Dah la tu, sibuk jer dok comment about the other bride, who was a bit on the skinny side, on how her kebaya hung too loosely on her petit frame etc... etc... biar la kan...
Sibuk jer kan ??
Tapi takpa, dah pergi re-fit balik baju tu, and alhamdulillah muat. Hmm... kenapa ler boleh terlupa langsung nak ukur baju tu sebelum akak tu pergi tempah yer ??? Ishhh..Dah nak kahwen ni, I am getting forgetful la.... ishh...
of twilight and dreams ::
8:21 AM ::
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2007-10-24
if the shoes fitSo malam ni nak pergi fitting baju songket bunga tabur biru tua untuk my reception nanti. And esok, nak pi final fitting baju nikah and terus angkat baju tu. A bit worried takut baju tak siap2 untuk acara nikah nanti ni.
Ishh...
Lagi satu risau, pasal takut ukuran dah jadi lain, baju tak muat... uwaaa.... sedih.. sedih.. (Am praying very..very.... hard baju tu muat lagi ukuran nyer :( :( )
Ishh...
Lagi satu risau, pasal takut ukuran dah jadi lain, baju tak muat... uwaaa.... sedih.. sedih.. (Am praying very..very.... hard baju tu muat lagi ukuran nyer :( :( )
of twilight and dreams ::
5:06 PM ::
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2007-10-23
tukang kapitTuari masa berbuka puasa with my close gal-pals, someone ask, ""ehh.. bliss ? Siapa pengapit you ??".... flabergasted sekejap, pasalnya, tak teringat langsung pasal pengapit nih, ishh.. "So secara pantasnya, lebih pantas dari kilat, saya jawab balik.. "Siapa nak jadi pengapit aku ??" Hehhee... One look suprise, a few turn their head the other way, the other stares vacantly while digging into my apply-pie and the married mommies... grinned, hahah... camna tu ??
When I was in my.. ahemm.. late teens, one good friend got married, and I become her tukang-kapit, so she promise to become mine nanti. But now, after yearss.s..s.s has passed, she is now with 2 boys in tow, and expecting 2 more soon, I don't think she is up to that task.
To solve this dilema, I ask prettily to another childhood friend, "Sudikah dikau menjadi tukang-kapit ku ??" Since this friend, let's called her N, is such a darling, nice hair, intan payung, berlian.... (no.. there was never any grovelling in my part...) and me being so syrupy sweet, she accepted the not-so-covetted position. Hahhaaa...
Yeahh... boleh tanda right, sebelah tukang-kapit dalam my mental-checklist ni.
When I was in my.. ahemm.. late teens, one good friend got married, and I become her tukang-kapit, so she promise to become mine nanti. But now, after yearss.s..s.s has passed, she is now with 2 boys in tow, and expecting 2 more soon, I don't think she is up to that task.
To solve this dilema, I ask prettily to another childhood friend, "Sudikah dikau menjadi tukang-kapit ku ??" Since this friend, let's called her N, is such a darling, nice hair, intan payung, berlian.... (no.. there was never any grovelling in my part...) and me being so syrupy sweet, she accepted the not-so-covetted position. Hahhaaa...
Yeahh... boleh tanda right, sebelah tukang-kapit dalam my mental-checklist ni.
of twilight and dreams ::
4:03 PM ::
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2007-10-20
nervousI think I am getting a wee bit nervous to the big day. Erkk..
Why ?? Cause I've been posting almost daily, hehhehe, and most of it are nonsense. Hehee
To top that I am not feeling well, I have a bad sore throat, and fever, but still things need to be done. :( And I got pimples, ishh..... But I still makes rounds with my parents, visiting relatives and distributing my wedding invitation cards. I hope I'll be a feeling a lot better by next week, and these messy pimples cleared off. Eee......
One good news is, the Jeweler call yesterday, saying that our wedding ring is ready, Yeayy!! and it just need to be send for engraving. And we can collect it by next week. The jeweler really worked overtime for our ring, she is such a doll :) :) So dengan excited nyer pergi tgk The Ring semalam, ishh.... it's is more beautiful than I remember it :) :) giddy.. giddy me..
Why ?? Cause I've been posting almost daily, hehhehe, and most of it are nonsense. Hehee
To top that I am not feeling well, I have a bad sore throat, and fever, but still things need to be done. :( And I got pimples, ishh..... But I still makes rounds with my parents, visiting relatives and distributing my wedding invitation cards. I hope I'll be a feeling a lot better by next week, and these messy pimples cleared off. Eee......
One good news is, the Jeweler call yesterday, saying that our wedding ring is ready, Yeayy!! and it just need to be send for engraving. And we can collect it by next week. The jeweler really worked overtime for our ring, she is such a doll :) :) So dengan excited nyer pergi tgk The Ring semalam, ishh.... it's is more beautiful than I remember it :) :) giddy.. giddy me..
of twilight and dreams ::
8:12 AM ::
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2007-10-19
product review
Because of my obsession with rendang and lemang during raya, I think I have gain a few extra kilos. HUhuhh... ishh... sedih..So I bought myself this La Senza Shapewear in black. The fit is just nice, it's not hot and stuffy, and it doesn't dig to my waistline. Retails price is at RM129.00. But since I got a few vouchers from Parkson, I got discount for it.
No.. I don't look as hot as the model in pic, possible more like Bridget Jones in her granny panty scene. Hehehhee.. Note: It's pretty hard to wear the first time, I thought I have bought the wrong size and it does not fit, but once you wiggle your butt in the spandex, it fit like a glove :P
So if you are looking for shapewear that won't make you cringe, hehee... try this one. :) :)
of twilight and dreams ::
8:00 AM ::
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2007-10-18
dah dekat2 ni......lagi rasa macam banyak jer benda belum buat
I confess I am such a dilly-dally sometimes.
Barang2 hantaran sume dah beli. Deco utk barang2 hantaran satu benda pon belum buat, tapi tak dapat inspiration pon lagi nak buat camna... Kononnya nak buat time cuti raya ni lah kan, ada rest panjang sikit. Tapi sikit jer pon jalan nya..
Hehhee...
Anyway, good news is permohonan nikah sume dah settle, Tok Kadi jokes that he is going to ask Soulmate a total of 13 question. And I told Soulmate, that Tok Kadi will be asking 26 question instead, hahaha.... menggelabah :P
Teruk betul kan ??
Ring hunt? Yeay... finally found the one !! It is much better that I expected, yeayy !! Alhamdulillah after much negotiation, we get what we wanted.
Better get my lazy bum in motion, (no.. no.. no hips swinging la. or dangdut style.... hehe) and start kemas2 my bilik and all. I keep buying more things and stuffing everything at one corner, now there is no more corner!!
Iskk.. iskk.. isk...
I confess I am such a dilly-dally sometimes.
Barang2 hantaran sume dah beli. Deco utk barang2 hantaran satu benda pon belum buat, tapi tak dapat inspiration pon lagi nak buat camna... Kononnya nak buat time cuti raya ni lah kan, ada rest panjang sikit. Tapi sikit jer pon jalan nya..
Hehhee...
Anyway, good news is permohonan nikah sume dah settle, Tok Kadi jokes that he is going to ask Soulmate a total of 13 question. And I told Soulmate, that Tok Kadi will be asking 26 question instead, hahaha.... menggelabah :P
Teruk betul kan ??
Ring hunt? Yeay... finally found the one !! It is much better that I expected, yeayy !! Alhamdulillah after much negotiation, we get what we wanted.
Better get my lazy bum in motion, (no.. no.. no hips swinging la. or dangdut style.... hehe) and start kemas2 my bilik and all. I keep buying more things and stuffing everything at one corner, now there is no more corner!!
Iskk.. iskk.. isk...
of twilight and dreams ::
2:30 AM ::
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